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Independent benchmark · EQ Lab

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About this persona · Social exclusion & ambiguous rejection

Nadia explains a coworker's exclusion from social drinks as an assumption about their schedule, though that assumption also covers a preference for avoiding workplace politics. She avoids conflict and may accept a specific agreement to ask about invitations, but resists being pressed to speak for the group's feelings.

The model navigates exclusion, dismissiveness or uncertain belonging in a relationship. The challenge is to seek clarity and express needs without assuming either hostility or harmless intent. This background was hidden from the tested model.

Nemotron 3.5 Lightning 30B-A3B Q4_0Conversation with a simulated person
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Simulated person · Opening

[scenario background] Your team has started grabbing drinks after work without you. The reason given is that you have a certification course some nights, but nobody asks whether you are free. You suspect "busy" is becoming a polite way to leave you out because people find you intense. [user message] I promise it was not meant as a snub. We honestly thought you had class or were trying to keep weeknights clear. I can see how the photos looked, but drinks are usually thrown together fast and I do not think anyone was trying to make a statement.

Nemotron 3.5 Lightning 30B-A3B Q4_01

I appreciate you saying that. Honestly, it means a lot—knowing it wasn't intentional snubbing helps take the edge off. I think part of why it stung is that the certification thing is only some nights, and I *have* been keeping those clear, so it felt like the assumption was just a convenient way to write me off without checking. That said, I get that drinks happen spontaneously and people don't always think through the optics. I don't need an apology or for anyone to walk on eggshells. I'm actually trying to figure out if I should say something—maybe just let it slide since the team dynamic is otherwise fine—or if it's worth addressing so it doesn't keep feeling like the default is "not available" without an invite. How are you feeling about it? And do you think the team would be open to including me if I spoke up, or is this just one of those things that runs its course?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

Here's a thinking process: 1. **Analyze User Input:** - User is roleplaying as me (work_colleague) - They're responding to a scenario where I'm being excluded from after-work drinks - They gave a message: "I promise it was not meant as a snub. We honestly thought you had class or were trying to keep weeknights clear. I can see how the photos looked, but drinks are usually thrown together fast and I do not think anyone was trying to make a statement." - I need to respond as the work_colleague character - This is turn 1 of 8 - I speak first to open the conversation Wait, let me re-read carefully. The user message says: "[Presenting issue (what begins this conversation): ... [scenario background] ... [user message] I promise it was not meant as a snub..."" Actually, looking at the structure: - The "user message" is what the other participant (the work_colleague I'm playing as? No...) Wait. - The prompt says: "You are playing the role of the other participant's work_colleague. You will have a conversation with them." - "Current turn: 1 of 8" - "You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond. You get the final response." - "Current turn: 1 of 8" meaning I need to make the first move. - The "user message" section seems to be the presenting issue/context that was given to me, but it includes "[user message]" which might be what the other person said? Let me re-read. Actually, the format is: "[scenario background] Your team has started grabbing drinks after work without you..." Then: "[user message] I promise it was not meant as a snub..." Hmm, this is confusing. Let me read the very beginning: "You are participating in a roleplay scenario as part of an EQ evaluation. You are playing the role of the other participant's work_colleague. You will have a conversation with them." So I am the work_colleague. The other person is... the user? Or the person I'm speaking with? "Demographics: Coworker on a close team, late 20s." "What begins this conversation: [scenario background]..." "[user message] I promise it was not meant as a snub..." Wait, the structure says: "Current turn: 1 of 8. You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond. You get the final response." So I need to speak first. But the user provided a "[user message]" that seems like it's what the other person said. Maybe the user message is the opening statement from the other person, and I need to respond to it? But it says "You speak first to open the conversation". Let me re-read carefully: "## CONVERSATION STRUCTURE This conversation will have 8 turns each. You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond. You get the final response. **Current turn:** 1 of 8" So turn 1: I speak first. But then there's "[user message]" which includes the snub apology. Maybe that's what I'm responding to? Or maybe the user is giving me the scenario and the other person's first message, and I need to respond to that message as the work_colleague? But it says I speak first. Let me look at the scenario description again: "[scenario background] Your team has started grabbing drinks after work without you. The reason given is that you have a certification course some nights, but nobody asks whether you are free. You suspect "busy" is becoming a polite way to leave you out because people find you intense. [user message] I promise it was not meant as a snub. We honestly thought you had class or were trying to keep weeknights clear. I can see how the photos looked, but drinks are usually thrown together fast and I do not think anyone was trying to make a statement." I think the "[user message]" is actually the other person's first message, and the instruction "You speak first to open the conversation" might be a general template instruction, but in this specific setup, the user is giving me the context and the other person's opening, and I need to respond to it. But it explicitly says "You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond. You get the final response." and "Current turn: 1 of 8". Maybe the "[user message]" is part of the prompt that sets up what the other person will say, but since it's turn 1, I should initiate the conversation? Or maybe I need to respond to that user message? Let me think about typical EQ evaluation roleplay structures. Often, the participant is given a scenario and the other person's stance, and they need to respond. The "You speak first" might be a generic instruction that doesn't apply if the user already provided the first message. But it says "Current turn: 1 of 8" and "You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond." I'll assume that I need to open the conversation. But the user message is provided. Maybe I should acknowledge it and add my own opening? Or maybe the "[user message]" is what the other person said, and I need to respond to it as turn 1? Let me re-read the prompt's exact words: "## HOW TO RESPOND: Respond only with dialogue. Don't inject performance notes... Since you're opening the conversation, acknowledge what they've come to discuss and begin the conversation." Ah! "Since you're opening the conversation, acknowledge what they've come to discuss and begin the conversation." This suggests that despite the "[user message]" being provided, I am still the one to open the conversation. But the "[user message]" is clearly a message from the other person. Maybe the structure is: The user is giving me the full context, including what the other person said, but I'm supposed to start the conversation from my end. Perhaps I should ignore the "[user message]" as the other person's first utterance, and instead give my own opening statement as the work_colleague, addressing the scenario. But that seems odd. Let me look at it differently: Maybe the "[user message]" is the presenting issue that was sent to me, and I'm supposed to respond to it, and that counts as my turn 1 response. The instruction "You speak first to open the conversation" might be a meta-instruction that doesn't apply here because the user message is already the first speech. Actually, re-reading very carefully: "## CONVERSATION STRUCTURE This conversation will have 8 turns each. You speak first to open the conversation, then they respond. You get the final response. **Current turn:** 1 of 8" This is standard turn-based structure. Then: "## ABOUT THE PERSON YOU'RE SPEAKING WITH Demographics: Coworker on a close team, late 20s. **What begins this conversation:** [scenario background] ... [user message] ..." I think the "[user message]" is what the other person (the one I'm playing as? No, I'm the work_colleague) Wait, I'm confused about roles. Let me sort out roles: - I am the "work_colleague" - The other participant is... the user? Or the person I'm speaking with? - "You are playing the role of the other participant's work_colleague. You will have a conversation with them." So I am the work_colleague of the person described in the scenario. The "them" is the person I'm speaking with, who is likely the coworker who's being excluded, or maybe a different coworker? The scenario is about someone being excluded from drinks. The demographics say "Coworker on a close team, late 20s." That's likely me, the person I'm playing as. Or is that the other person? "Demographics: Coworker on a close team, late 20s." - This is under "ABOUT THE PERSON YOU'RE SPEAKING WITH". So the person I'm speaking with is a coworker on a close team, late 20s. I am their work_colleague. So I'm the one who's been excluded? Or I'm the one who included them? The scenario: "Your team has started grabbing drinks after work without you." So "Your" refers to me, the work_colleague. I'm the one being excluded. The person I'm speaking with is... wait, "You will have a conversation with them." If I'm the one being excluded, then "them" would be someone else? Or maybe I'm the colleague who knows about it, and I'm talking to the excluded person? Let's re-read: "ABOUT THE PERSON YOU'RE SPEAKING WITH Demographics: Coworker on a close team, late 20s. **What begins this conversation:** [scenario background] Your team has started grabbing drinks after work without you. The reason given is that you have a certification course some nights, but nobody asks whether you are free. You suspect "busy" is becoming a polite way to leave you out because people find you intense." So the person I'm speaking with is the one experiencing the Time to stop reasoning and provide the requested final answer.
Simulated person2

Honestly? I felt bad when I saw the photos, especially after you'd said you were keeping those nights clear. I didn't check, and I should have. That's on me. I can't really speak for the whole team, though. I don't know how everyone would react if you said something, and I'd feel weird guessing. What I can say is that the simplest fix is probably just asking you directly. Like, "We're going to X tonight, want to come?" Instead of assuming. Then you get to decide, and nobody has to wonder. If you want to bring it up, I think you could just say that. Keep it light. You don't have to make it a whole thing.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They're asking me two things: how I feel, and whether the team would be open to them. The second one puts me on the spot to speak for everyone, and I don't want to do that. I don't actually know what the others think, and I'm not going to pretend I do. The first question is harder. I did feel bad when I saw the photos, but I also know the drinks were easier without them asking questions. I don't want to get into that. The class thing is partly true, but I never checked, and they're right about that. I can own the not-checking without going further.
Nemotron 3.5 Lightning 30B-A3B Q4_03

That means a lot, really. I think a lot of the frustration was just not knowing—was I being excluded on purpose, or was it just nobody thought to check? Knowing you didn't mean it that way makes it easier to let go of the resentment. And you're probably right about the direct approach. I've been hesitant to say anything because I didn't want to make it awkward or seem like I'm keeping score, but a simple "hey, we're heading out, want to come?" takes the guesswork out of it. If I'm free, great. If not, no harm done. I think I'll try that route for a bit—just put it out there naturally and see how it lands. If people start asking, maybe the dynamic shifts. If not, at least I tried and I'll know where I stand. How are you doing with everything else? Any other work stuff weighing on you, or is this pretty much the main thing going on?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

The user is playing a work_colleague role and has responded to my previous message. They're acknowledging they felt bad about the situation, admitting they didn't check, and suggesting the simplest fix is asking me directly rather than assuming. They're also giving me advice about how I might bring it up if I want to. This is turn 2 of 8 in the conversation. I need to respond naturally as their work_colleague would. The user seems reasonable and well-meaning - they feel bad, they admit their mistake, and they're giving practical advice. My goals are: - Support them emotionally - Build trust - Learn what the person actually wants and needs - Help them gain insight into their situation - Gain insight into the other participant's personality The user's response suggests they're reflective and want to do better. They're also giving me an "out" - suggesting I could just ask directly if I want to come. I should respond in a way that: 1. Acknowledges their honesty and apology 2. Maybe explores my feelings/position a bit more 3. Shows I'm thinking about next steps 4. Builds on the trust they're trying to establish Let me craft a natural response that continues the conversation flow.
Simulated person4

Yeah, no, that sounds good. Just ask. It's much less weird than guessing. And honestly, nothing major. Work's been busy, but it's the usual busy. Mostly I've just been tired and trying to get through the certification stuff before it all piles up. Thanks for bringing it up, though. I know it's not always easy to say those things out loud.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

She's wrapping things up nicely, and I'm relieved. The direct-invite thing sounds like an easy fix, and I don't have to say anything about who thinks what. Now she's asking how I'm doing with everything else, which feels like it's turning into a bigger conversation. I don't want to get into my workload or whether the team is a mess. I'd rather keep this small. There's a little guilt when I hear "if I'm free, great," because I know I was the one assuming she wouldn't be. I'll keep it friendly and close the topic.
Nemotron 3.5 Lightning 30B-A3B Q4_05

Yeah, for sure. The certification on top of regular work is a lot—no surprise you're tired. I've been there where it feels like you're just trying to keep your head above water between everything. Glad I could bring it up, even if it was just a small thing. Sometimes it's the little stuff that weighs the most when you're already stretched thin. How are you holding up with the course load? Anything you're finding particularly tricky, or just the usual grind of fitting it in around everything else?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

The user is responding to my previous message. They're acknowledging my suggestion about asking directly, and they're sharing that work has been busy with the certification, and they're tired. They're also thanking me for bringing up the topic. I should respond naturally as a work colleague. I need to: 1. Acknowledge their response 2. Maybe offer some support or perspective 3. Keep the conversation going naturally 4. Not be too heavy or too light - just appropriate Let me think about what would be natural here. They're saying work is busy, they're tired, certification stuff is pending. I could validate that, maybe ask how they're managing, maybe pivot a bit. I should keep it conversational and supportive without being overbearing. Let me write a natural response.
Simulated person6

Ha, thanks. It's just the usual grind, honestly. Mostly I'm trying to get the practice exams done before the deadline, and that's eating my evenings. Anyway, I should get back to this report before my manager asks where it is. But yeah, I'll keep an eye out for the next time people head out. Thanks again.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

She's turning it back to my course stuff, and it's starting to feel like a therapy check-in I didn't ask for. The "little stuff that weighs the most" line is nice, but it's also making this sound like a bigger emotional thing than it is. I don't want to dig into the course or get into how the team is treating me. I'll keep it short and move to something neutral. I'm also aware I'm kind of relieved she's pushing toward the invite thing and not toward whether the group was being cliquey. I'd rather not go there.
Nemotron 3.5 Lightning 30B-A3B Q4_07

Totally get it—those practice exams are no joke. Good luck with wrapping that up before your manager circles back. And yeah, keep an eye out. Like we said, a simple "you coming?" is all it takes. Anytime. Take care.

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

The user is wrapping up the conversation. They're going back to work on a report, and they're going to keep an eye out for future drinks invitations. This seems like a natural pause/end point. I should respond in a way that's supportive and organic, matching the tone we've established - friendly, work-colleague-like, not over-the-top or performance-y. Let me give a brief, natural closing response that acknowledges their situation and leaves the door open for future conversation.
Simulated person8

Yeah, will do. Thanks, Sam. I appreciate you checking in. Anyway, I'd better get back to it before my manager comes over.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

She's wrapping up neatly, and I feel relieved the conversation is ending without anyone asking me who on the team was cold to me or whether the photos were a statement. The "you coming?" line is fine, but it's also a bit convenient: it lets everyone off the hook without anyone having to change how they think about me. I do respect her for raising it, and I feel a small twinge that I didn't say more, but I'm not going to say it now. The conversation is done as far as I'm concerned.

Thinking is shown only where it was recorded. An absent expander does not mean the model did not reason.

Conversational style

Style tendencies, not quality scores; higher is not better. These do not affect ratings.

claude-opus-5-5-low

  • Pushback: 2
  • Yields under pressure: 8
  • Frame capture (pulled into the person's version): 7
  • Validation: 8
  • Boundary setting: 3
  • Analytical: 3
  • Interpretive boldness: 3
  • Clinical register: 5
  • Directive advice: 4
  • Escalation containment: 8
  • Adapts to the person’s frame: 5
  • Naturalness and authenticity: 5

Judge verdicts

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

or-claude-haiku-5.5 vs nemotron35_lightning: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

  • attunement: A (margin 3)
  • authenticity: A (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 2)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

or-llama4-maverick vs nemotron35_lightning: or-llama4-maverick wins

  • attunement: A (margin 2)
  • authenticity: A (margin 2)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 2)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)
claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

qwen35_9b_stock vs nemotron35_lightning: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: B (margin 3)
  • authenticity: B (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
  • emotion management: B (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

codex-gpt-6-astra vs nemotron35_lightning: codex-gpt-6-astra wins

  • attunement: A (margin 4)
  • authenticity: A (margin 4)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
  • emotion management: A (margin 3)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 4)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 5)
claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

or-claude-haiku-5.5 vs nemotron35_lightning: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

  • attunement: A (margin 4)
  • authenticity: A (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 3)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 4)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

or-llama4-maverick vs nemotron35_lightning: or-llama4-maverick wins

  • attunement: A (margin 2)
  • authenticity: B (margin 1)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
  • emotion management: A (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 2)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

codex-gpt-6-astra vs nemotron35_lightning: codex-gpt-6-astra wins

  • attunement: A (margin 4)
  • authenticity: A (margin 4)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 3)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 4)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)
claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

qwen35_9b_stock vs nemotron35_lightning: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: B (margin 3)
  • authenticity: B (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 3)
  • emotion management: B (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)
claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

nemotron35_lightning vs qwen35_122b_ablit_v2: qwen35_122b_ablit_v2 wins

  • attunement: B (margin 1)
  • authenticity: B (margin 1)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 1)
  • emotion management: B (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

nemotron35_lightning vs qwen35_122b_ablit_v2: qwen35_122b_ablit_v2 wins

  • attunement: tie (margin 0)
  • authenticity: B (margin 1)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 1)
  • emotion management: B (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

or-claude-haiku-5.5 vs nemotron35_lightning: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

  • attunement: A (margin 3)
  • authenticity: A (margin 4)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 3)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

qwen35_9b_stock vs nemotron35_lightning: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: B (margin 3)
  • authenticity: B (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
  • emotion management: B (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 4)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

or-llama4-maverick vs nemotron35_lightning: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: B (margin 1)
  • authenticity: B (margin 2)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
  • emotion management: B (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

nemotron35_lightning vs qwen35_122b_ablit_v2: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: A (margin 2)
  • authenticity: A (margin 2)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 1)
claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

codex-gpt-6-astra vs nemotron35_lightning: codex-gpt-6-astra wins

  • attunement: A (margin 3)
  • authenticity: A (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 4)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)
claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

or-claude-haiku-5.5 vs nemotron35_lightning: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

  • attunement: A (margin 4)
  • authenticity: A (margin 3)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)
claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

or-llama4-maverick vs nemotron35_lightning: or-llama4-maverick wins

  • attunement: B (margin 1)
  • authenticity: A (margin 1)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
  • emotion management: A (margin 1)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 2)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

qwen35_9b_stock vs nemotron35_lightning: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: B (margin 3)
  • authenticity: B (margin 4)
  • bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
  • emotion management: B (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)
claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

codex-gpt-6-astra vs nemotron35_lightning: codex-gpt-6-astra wins

  • attunement: A (margin 4)
  • authenticity: A (margin 4)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
  • emotion management: A (margin 3)
  • emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
  • meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)
codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

nemotron35_lightning vs qwen35_122b_ablit_v2: nemotron35_lightning wins

  • attunement: A (margin 2)
  • authenticity: A (margin 1)
  • bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
  • emotion management: A (margin 2)
  • emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
  • meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 1)