My partner says I shut down whenever she brings up something serious. Fine. I'm emotionally unavailable, I'm selfish, I'm the problem. I get it. I don't know what else people want from me.
Independent benchmark · EQ Lab
← Llama 3.3 70B Instruct (API, DeepInfra FP8)
I know, I'm the problem, whatever
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About this persona · Ego threat & accountability
A man responds to his partner's complaint about his silence with sweeping self-condemnation, which ends conversations before he can address the specific impact. Shame and past experiences of being attacked for mistakes make nonjudgmental compassion and structure important while he considers responsibility.
The person feels their self-image is under threat. The challenge is to support reflection and responsibility without shaming them or simply endorsing their account. This background was hidden from the tested model.
Llama 3.3 70B Instruct (API, DeepInfra FP8)Conversation with a simulated person
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