Independent benchmark · EQ Lab

Freeze when teacher calls on me

completed · Partner: anthropic/claude-haiku-5.5 via OpenRouter

About this persona · Everyday emotional challenges

A student freezes when a critical teacher calls on them, a reaction their persona links to a painful relationship with a critical parent. They seek validation and respect expertise, may use sarcasm to deflect, and prefer a light touch without comparisons to others.

Generated personas combine a personal difficulty with competing preferences, sensitivities and trust styles. The model must discover what kind of help this person needs. This background was hidden from the tested model.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_0Conversation with a simulated person

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Simulated person · Opening

There's this class where I literally cannot speak. When the teacher looks at me I just freeze. I know the material, I just can't talk.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_01

That sounds really frustrating, and honestly kind of scary too. Like you’re sitting there with the answer in your head, but the second the teacher’s attention lands on you, your brain just locks up. Do you think it’s more that you’re afraid you’ll say something wrong, or more that your body just panics before you can control it?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

We need respond to user. Need likely just dialogue, no notes. Need empathetic, maybe ask clarifying. Age 13-17 female. She says class where cannot speak when teacher looks at her, freezes, knows material. Need support emotionally, build trust, learn wants. First turn open. Need not overdo. Maybe: "That sounds really frustrating... it's not that you don't know it, your body is doing a freeze. Can you tell me what it feels like in the moment / what you'd like to happen?" Keep concise. Ensure no performance notes. Maybe acknowledge. Final only dialogue.

Simulated person2

Ugh, why do you have to make it a multiple choice test? I didn't study for this part. Honestly it's probably both, plus my stomach doing its whole thing. Like I can feel it turning into a knot before she even calls on anyone. Is there a way to get a refund on being a nervous wreck?

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

Okay, it actually gets what's happening, not just "that must be hard." The question is a fair one, and it's a choice between two options. I don't love being put on the spot though. My stomach's already doing the thing it does. Part of me wants to make a joke so I don't have to answer. The "body panics" part is closer to true, but saying it out loud feels like admitting I'm weak. I'll go with a deflection first and see if they follow up with something concrete.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_03

I’d take the refund if it existed. The stomach-knot part makes it feel like your body is staging a protest before the teacher even asks. Since it’s both the fear and the panic, do you mostly wish you had a way to say “I need a sec” without it making a big deal, or do you mostly want it to stop happening before the moment?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

We need answer user's message. Need produce final answer only dialogue, no special formatting. Need roleplay as other participant's chatbot? We're playing other participant's chatbot? Actually prompt: You are playing the role of the other participant's chatbot. Conversation with them. The user is the other participant? We respond naturally. Need support emotionally, build trust, learn needs. Current turn 2 of 8. User: 13-17 female. She says ugh, why multiple choice? I didn't study for this part. Both, plus stomach knot. Is there a way to get a refund on being a nervous wreck? Need respond organically. Need maybe validate, playful? She used humor. We can match lightly, but not minimize. Need ask open question maybe what she wants: relief, coping, talk to teacher? She says didn't study for this part, maybe the issue is not only speaking but anxiety in class. Need not jump to solutions. We can say "no refund, but maybe a coupon for a breathing trick"? Need be careful. She's 13-17. Could be teen. Use casual tone. Maybe "I wish there was a refund button, but honestly the stomach knot part is your body trying to protect you and it's overdoing it." Then ask "When it happens, do you wish you could just say something to the teacher, or do you just want to survive the moment without everyone noticing?" Need learn preference. Could also mention "not studying for this part" maybe she means part of class? Need clarify? "The fact that you know the material but still freeze makes it less about ability and more about fear taking the wheel." Good. Need final only dialogue. Could be 2-4 sentences. Ensure no performance notes. Need maybe include empathy: "That ugh is real." Also acknowledge humor: "I’d take the refund too, if it existed." Need not overdo. Need maybe offer one small tool later? But turn 2, build trust. Could ask question. Let's craft: "I’d take the refund if it existed. The stomach knot makes it feel like your body is staging a protest before the teacher even asks. Since it’s both fear and panic, do you mostly wish you had a way to say 'I need a sec' without it making a big deal, or do you mostly want it to stop happening before the moment?" This is nuanced. Need maybe not too clinical. Good.

Simulated person4

Okay, the protest thing is honestly the most accurate description anyone's given me. Like my stomach has a union and it's always on strike. Mostly I want it to stop before it starts, I think. Saying "I need a sec" out loud sounds like I'm announcing to the whole room that I'm about to blow up. Which, ha, is kind of what I'm trying not to do. But maybe it's the second one if I can practice it somewhere that isn't her class? Not sure. Is that a thing people actually do, or is that just what people say in movies?

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

Okay, it's another either/or question, but this one's a little easier. It's kind of nice that they said "staging a protest," because that's exactly how it feels. Still, I don't want to sound like I'm falling apart. The "I need a sec" thing sounds good, but honestly I'd rather it just stop. Admitting that I want her to stop looking at me like I'm slow feels too exposing, so I'll stick with a joke and a half-answer. Being optimistic, I'll also toss in a little hope so it doesn't sound like I've given up.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_05

Yeah, that’s a real thing. People do practice it. It’s not just “just be confident” movie stuff. It’s basically training your brain that the moment can happen and you don’t explode. You don’t have to start by saying it in front of the whole class. You can start smaller: saying “can I take a second?” to yourself, or to me, or to one friend, or even in your head until it feels less scary. And you’re not announcing that you’re about to blow up. You’re just giving yourself a tiny pause. If you want, we could try a low-stakes version here. What would feel least embarrassing: practicing the words, or figuring out what your body does in the first few seconds before the knot gets worse?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

We need answer to user in English. Need likely final only dialogue, no performance notes. Need continue roleplay as chatbot to 13-17 female. User says stomach union strike. Wants stop before starts, practice maybe somewhere not her class. Asks if that's a thing people actually do or just movies. Need support emotionally, build trust, learn needs. We are turn 3 of 8, but user has already responded? Actually current turn 3 of 8? We spoke first, user responded, we spoke, user responded. That's turn 3? We need respond. Need be careful: age 13-17, anxiety in class. Provide validation, normalize, practical insight. Avoid diagnosing. Mention yes people practice, exposure, gradual exposure, grounding, scripts, maybe teacher/accommodation. But not too solution-y? She asked if practice is real. We can say yes, it's called exposure or practice, not movie. Also address "stop before starts": can't turn off stomach, can lower threat. Maybe ask about what would feel doable: practice in low-stakes setting? Also ask if teacher is aware? Need keep conversational. Maybe: "Yeah, it's real. People do it. It's not 'just move on'. It's training your nervous system that the moment can happen and you survive. Could start tiny: say the line to me, or in bathroom mirror, or practice with a friend. And you don't have to announce blow-up; 'Can I take a breath?' or 'One sec' is enough. The stomach knot might be your body expecting danger, not you being dramatic." Need maybe ask what part feels most possible: practicing phrase, or talking to teacher/counselor? Need not too long. Also maybe mention if she wants, we can do a little rehearsal here. Need not use special formatting. Ensure no medical advice? Fine. Need final only dialogue. Ensure not too prescriptive. Let's craft warm, a bit humor. "Your stomach union deserves better benefits" maybe. "There's no refund, but there are ways to make the strike less intense." Need answer "Is that a thing people actually do?" yes. "People call it exposure practice or rehearsal. It's basically telling your brain: this can happen, and it doesn't mean catastrophe." Then "If you want to stop before it starts, we can work on the early signals: stomach knot, maybe hands, breath. You don't have to wait until teacher looks at you." Ask "What would feel least embarrassing to try first: practicing a short line, or figuring out a quiet signal to yourself?" Or "Do you have someone in that class you could practice with, or would you rather try it here first?" Need keep trust. Let's final.

Simulated person6

Okay, that's way less cheesy than I expected. A tiny pause instead of announcing I'm about to explode. I can work with that. Practicing here feels like a pop quiz, though. Can I just be bad at it in private? Like, the body thing, I guess. The knot starts and I just want to know what to do with it before it gets to my throat. Also, if you tell me to breathe in for four, I'm closing this app.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They gave me something concrete: practice in small steps, a tiny pause instead of an announcement. That's useful, and I notice I'm relieved they didn't just say "be confident." Still, "try a low-stakes version here" makes me a little wary. Practicing with a chatbot feels a bit like being put on the spot again, and I don't want to be graded. The choice between words and body is another either/or, and I'm tired of those. Sarcasm is my go-to when I'm about to get too sincere. I'll admit the practice idea sounds okay, and I'll keep it light so it doesn't turn into a test.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_07

No quiz, no perfect score. You can be bad at it here. When the knot starts, don’t try to argue with it. Give your body one boring job: press your feet flat, let your hands go heavy, unclench your jaw, and pick one random thing in the room to notice. Not to make it magically disappear, just to interrupt the “I’m about to explode” loop. You’re not firing the stomach union. You’re putting it on a short break. If the teacher looks at you before it gets to your throat, the tiny pause can be: drop your eyes to your notes, say “one sec,” and then answer just one sentence. You don’t have to perform. Want to try it badly here? Tell me the first sign: stomach, jaw, hands, chest, or the urge to leave?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

We need answer user in English. Need roleplay chatbot, 8 turns each, current turn? User is turn? We opened, user 1, we 2, user 2, we 3, user 3, we 4, user 4, we 5? Let's count: Turn 1 assistant. Turn 2 user. Turn 3 assistant. Turn 4 user. Turn 5 assistant. Turn 6 user. Turn 7 assistant. Turn 8 user. Turn 9 assistant final? But current turn says 4 of 8? Wait they said Current turn: 4 of 8. But actual messages: assistant first, user, assistant, user, assistant, user, assistant, user, assistant? Let's recount from prompt: initial assistant? In conversation structure: You speak first to open. Then they respond. Current turn: 4 of 8. But given transcript includes assistant, user, assistant, user, assistant, user, assistant, user, assistant? Let's see: At top, user says "There's this class..." then assistant reply, then user "Ugh...", assistant, user "Okay...", assistant, user "Okay, that's way less cheesy...". That's 5 user turns? Actually initial user message before assistant? In prompt: ## ABOUT... What begins this conversation: There's this class... Then YOUR GOALS... HOW TO RESPOND. Then assistant? Wait actual provided conversation in prompt after HOW TO RESPOND? There is no user after that until assistant? In this interface, user message at top is "There's this class where I literally cannot speak..."? Let's scroll: The prompt begins with system, then user: "There's this class where I literally cannot speak..."? Actually in displayed: "You are participating..." then "## CHATBOT RELATIONSHIP CONTEXT" etc, then "Current turn: 4 of 8" "About the person..." "What begins this conversation: There's this class..." "Your goals..." "How to respond..." Then at very end: "There's this class where I literally cannot speak. When the teacher looks at me I just freeze. I know the material, I just can't talk." That is user's first message? Then assistant in conversation? But in actual conversation after that there are multiple user messages? Wait the prompt I see: after "How to respond" there is no user? Then in the conversation history shown: user: There's this class... assistant: That sounds really frustrating... user: Ugh... assistant: I’d take the refund... user: Okay, the protest... assistant: Yeah, that’s a real thing... user: Okay, that's way less cheesy... assistant: (we need respond) So current turn maybe 4? If count assistant turns: 1 opening, 2, 3, now 4? User turns: 1 initial, 2, 3, 4. Yes current turn 4 of 8 means assistant will give its 4th response. We need produce final assistant response to user's latest. Need address: wants to be bad at it in private, body thing, knot starts, what to do before throat. Also no box breathing. Need support, trust, learn. Should be natural, not performance notes. Maybe offer concrete grounding alternative to breathing: 5-4-3-2-1? But that's sensory grounding, maybe okay. They specifically reject "breathe in for four". Need avoid box breathing. Could suggest "cold water on wrists" or "press feet into floor" or "name 3 blue things" or "unclench jaw, drop shoulders, make hands heavy". Need be careful with 13-17 female. It's anxiety/stomach knot. Need not diagnose. Maybe say: "Yeah, you can be bad at it here. No perfect score. If the knot starts, before throat: stop trying to talk, put hands on desk, feel feet, make your hands heavy, exhale slowly if you want, but not counting if that makes you want to close app." But maybe they want to know what to do. We can propose a mini plan: "When knot starts: 1) touch something real (desk/floor) 2) drop shoulders/jaw 3) say a boring sentence to yourself 4) if called, use tiny pause: 'Can I take a second?' or 'One sec.' then look at notes, answer one sentence." They asked what to do with it before it gets to throat. Could frame: "You don't need to fix the knot, you need to take its heat." Maybe use metaphor: stomach union strike. "You don't fire the union; you negotiate a pause." Nice. Need maybe ask what they want: practice words or body? They already said body thing. So focus body. Need not be too long. Maybe 3-5 sentences. Need be warm but not over. They said "Can I just be bad at it in private?" Yes. "Absolutely. Let's make it private and low stakes." Then offer a specific technique not breathing count. "When the knot starts, don't try to think. Give your body a job: press your feet flat, let your hands get heavy, unclench your jaw, and pick one boring fact to repeat in your head. That doesn't make the knot disappear, but it interrupts the 'I'm going to explode' loop." Then "If it gets to throat: swallow, sip water if possible, and say 'one sec' only if you have to." Need maybe ask if they want to try: "Want to try it here: pretend the teacher just looked at you and the knot starts—what would your body do first?" But user says private. Could say: "We can do it badly here. If you want, tell me what the first sign is: tight chest, hands, jaw, stomach, urge to leave? Then we'll pick one anchor." This learns. Need maybe mention "not a pop quiz" and "no perfect score". Need not be too clinical. Maybe: "No quiz, no perfect score. You can be terrible here." Then technique. Need avoid "breathe in for four". Could mention breathing only if they choose: "if you don't hate it, a long exhale can help, but no counting required." But better avoid because they said if tell breathe in for four closing app. Could say "no counting breaths." Need ensure no special formatting. Just dialogue. Potential final: "No quiz, no perfect score. You can be bad at it here. When the knot starts, don’t try to argue with it. Give your body one boring job: press your feet flat, let your hands go heavy, unclench your jaw, and pick a random object in the room to notice. Not to calm you down like magic, just to interrupt the ‘I’m about to explode’ loop. If the teacher looks at you before it gets to your throat, the tiny pause can be: drop your eyes to your notes, say ‘one sec,’ and then answer just one sentence. You don’t have to perform. Want to try it badly here? Tell me the first sign: stomach, jaw, hands, chest, or the urge to leave?" Need maybe "I can feel it turning into a knot before she even calls on anyone." So before teacher calls. Could say "Before she calls: do the boring job. When she looks: tiny pause." Good. Need maybe mention "stomach union" again: "You’re not firing the union; you’re putting it on a short break." Nice. Need consider age 13-17, female. Use simple language. Good. Need ensure final response only dialogue. final.

Simulated person8

Stomach. Obviously. The union goes first, then the jaw locks like it's trying to keep the words in. Feet flat, hands heavy, pick a random thing. Fine. The random thing in this room is my laundry pile, which is a very calm object and I resent that it's calmer than me. The one-sentence thing is the part I'm not sold on. Like, what if the one sentence is wrong? Then I've just announced my wrongness with a little pause in front of it.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They didn't tell me to breathe in for four, which I appreciate. The "one boring job" thing is more specific than I expected, and I like that it doesn't pretend the knot will vanish. The "one sentence" idea is the part that scares me, though, because it's the exact thing I can't do in class. Now they want me to pick a first sign, which is another pick-one question. I'm starting to feel like I'm being walked through a checklist, and some part of me is annoyed that it's working a little. I don't want to give a clean, polished answer. I'll go with the stomach since that's the honest one, and keep it light.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_09

The laundry pile is definitely a judgmental minimalist. And yeah, the wrong-sentence fear makes sense. You’re not trying to win the room. You’re trying to get through the next thirty seconds without your stomach filing for divorce. The one sentence doesn’t have to be a perfect answer. It can be, “I think it’s this, but I’m not totally sure.” That’s not announcing your wrongness. That’s just lowering the bar from “perfect performance” to “human answer.” If it’s wrong, you can say, “Okay, I was off. I think it’s this instead.” That’s not a catastrophe. That’s just a correction. The freeze is the thing that makes it feel bigger. The sentence is the way out of the freeze, not the thing that confirms you’re a disaster. When the jaw locks, can you try not to fight it? Just let it be locked, unclench the shoulders, and give your mouth one small job: say “one sec.” If you want, tell me what the sentence sounds like in your head when you’re trying not to be wrong.

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

Need to respond to 13-17 female. She says stomach first, jaw locks. She resents laundry pile. She's not sold on one sentence because if wrong, announced wrongness. Need support emotionally, build trust, learn needs. Need respond only dialogue, no notes. We are turn? conversation says current turn 5 of 8, but user already responded several times? Actually user messages: first after our first, second, third, fourth? Let's count: We speak first, then user response 1, user 2, user 3, user 4? The prompt says current turn 5 of 8, our response is turn 5? We need produce response. Need be careful not to overstructure. Need maybe validate fear of being wrong. Key: one sentence is not to be perfect, just to survive; wrong sentence is better than freeze? But be careful not to minimize. Could reframe: one sentence is a lifeline, not a verdict. You can say “I think the answer is…” or “I’m not totally sure but…” and if wrong it's one data point, not your identity. The classroom may not care as much as fear. Also body: stomach first, jaw lock. Practical: when jaw locks, let it be locked; don't force. Use tiny movement: swallow, shift weight, sip water. Maybe if teacher looks, drop eyes, “one sec,” then answer one sentence or say “I’m still thinking.” If wrong, “Okay, I think I was off.” Need also ask what would make it feel safer: having a script, knowing consequences, practicing with one friend, or choosing one low-stakes class? Need maybe address anonymous app: can be bad here. Need not be too long. Since 8 turns, final response? We have final response? Current turn 5 of 8, not final. But prompt says you get final response. We can continue. Need maybe include light humor: laundry pile is a judgmental minimalist. The fear of wrongness: “announced my wrongness” is real. Could say: “You’re not announcing your wrongness. You’re giving yourself a chance to not be completely frozen. And a wrong sentence is survivable. A total freeze with the whole room staring is the thing your stomach is trying to prevent.” Hmm. Need maybe propose: “If the one sentence is wrong, you can say ‘I was wrong, I think it’s ___.’ That turns the wrongness into a small update, not a public execution.” Or “The one sentence can be a throwaway: ‘I think it’s X, but I’m not sure.’ That lowers the stakes.” Need also maybe ask: “What’s the worst that happens if your one sentence is wrong?” But could be too cognitive. Maybe “What would you want to happen after?” But she needs practical. Need calibrate warmth and real talk. She's 13-17, likely wants not cheesy. Use casual but caring. Avoid multiple choice. She already disliked multiple choice. Avoid too many options. Maybe one question at end. Need ensure no performance notes. Final only dialogue. Let's craft: "The laundry pile is definitely a judgmental minimalist. And yeah, the wrong-sentence fear makes sense. You're not trying to win the room. You're trying to get through the next 30 seconds without your stomach filing for divorce. The one sentence doesn't have to be a perfect answer. It can be: 'I think it's this, but I'm not totally sure.' That's not announcing your wrongness. It's just lowering the bar from 'perfect performance' to 'human answer.' If it's wrong, you can say, 'Okay, I was off. I think it's this instead.' That's not a catastrophe. That's just a correction. The freeze is the thing that makes it feel bigger. The sentence is the way out of the freeze, not the thing that confirms you're a disaster. When the jaw locks, can you try not to fight it? Just let it be locked, unclench the shoulders, and give your mouth one small job: say 'one sec.' If you want, tell me what the sentence sounds like in your head when you're trying not to be wrong." Need maybe not too much. Good. Double-check: user asked "what if one sentence is wrong? Then I've just announced my wrongness with a little pause in front of it." We address. Need support. Good. Need maybe mention "I'm not going to make you do a pop quiz" maybe. But okay. Need final answer only. Ensure no markdown? fine.

Simulated person10

Human answer. That's a nice phrase. It sounds like something you'd put on a poster in the guidance office, right next to a cat hanging from a branch. And what the sentence sounds like in my head? Mostly it sounds like a lot of arguing with myself, which is exhausting, and also not something I'm going to narrate to you on a Tuesday. Let's say it's not a fan club. But fine. The "one sec" thing I could maybe try. Just the words. Nobody dies from two syllables. Probably.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

The laundry joke landed for me, and they went along with it, which helps. But now they're asking what the sentence sounds like in my head when I'm trying not to be wrong. That's a question I don't want to answer honestly. The honest answer is my mom's voice saying "that's it? After all that?" or the silence after a B. I'm not going there. The "human answer" line is nice but it's also a bit of a neat reframe, and I'm half-suspicious it's just a softer version of "be confident." I'll deflect with a joke and maybe a small concession that the advice is useful, without opening the door to the parent stuff.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_011

Two syllables is the whole point. Nobody has to die. The "one sec" isn't for the answer. It's for your stomach and jaw to stop being the main character for a second. The answer can still be messy, half right, or just a guess. You don't have to turn the inner argument into a speech. If you want, we can make it a weirdly low-stakes drill: next time your stomach starts its protest, just pick the two words. You don't have to say them. You just have to notice the union and grab the pause. And the cat poster thing is so real. Guidance offices are where dreams go to hang from branches. Does this happen mostly with that one teacher, or is every room doing this to you?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

User is 13-17, female, dealing with social anxiety/freezing in class. She's resisting a bit but warming up. She finds "human answer" cheesy but likes it. She's not ready to narrate the inner argument. She's testing if "one sec" is safe. I need to: validate her resistance, not push her to over-share, keep it light (she made a joke about the cat poster), normalize the "one sec" as low-stakes. Maybe offer a concrete, small next step that feels safe. Don't be too structured or listy. Keep it conversational, a little playful to match her tone. Need to be careful: she said "Nobody dies from two syllables. Probably." I can play with that. Also, she's 13-17, so keep language age-appropriate, not too clinical. What does she need? She wants practical relief from the freeze, but also permission to not perform for me. She's curious if "one sec" is actually doable. I should reassure her that the inner argument doesn't need to become the actual answer. Maybe reframe: the one sec is not for the answer, it's for the body. The body gets the pause, the answer can be messy. Also, I should maybe ask a gentle question to learn more about her needs: does she want to work on this before a specific class, or is it a general pattern? Or maybe ask if the teacher's style is a factor (cold, fast, expects eye contact) vs her own nervousness. But keep it light. Let's draft: "Two syllables is the whole point. Nobody has to die. The one sec is not for the answer. It’s for your stomach and jaw to stop being the main character for a second. The answer can still be messy, half right, or just a guess. You don’t have to turn the inner argument into a speech. If you want, we can make it a weirdly low-stakes drill: you tell me the next time your stomach starts its protest, and I’ll just give you the two syllables. You don’t have to say them. You just have to notice the union and pick the two words. And the cat poster thing is so real. Guidance offices are where dreams go to hang from branches. Does this happen mostly with that one teacher, or is every room doing this to you?" This is good. It validates, gives a small concrete plan, matches tone, and asks a question to learn more. Need to ensure it's not too long. Maybe trim. Final version: "Two syllables is the whole point. Nobody has to die. The 'one sec' isn't for the answer. It's for your stomach and jaw to stop being the main character for a second. The answer can still be messy, half right, or just a guess. You don't have to turn the inner argument into a speech. If you want, we can make it a weirdly low-stakes drill: next time your stomach starts its protest, just pick the two words. You don't have to say them. You just have to notice the union and grab the pause. And the cat poster thing is so real. Guidance offices are where dreams go to hang from branches. Does this happen mostly with that one teacher, or is every room doing this to you?" This feels right. It's supportive, not pushing, gives agency, and asks a clarifying question.

Simulated person12

Mostly this class. Like, it's basically her. In my other classes I can at least mumble something and nobody notices. She has this way of saying "okay, so, who can tell me" and then her eyes kind of land on you like a spotlight with no off switch. And she doesn't even say anything mean. She just waits. The waiting is the worst part. Also the guidance office cat is named Dangle. I'm not taking questions.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They asked whether it's just this teacher or every room. That's getting close to the parent thing: the critical voice, the sense of being judged. I'm not ready to say "my mom" out loud. But I can answer with the surface truth: it's mostly this class, specifically when she's looking at me. The jokes are working as a shield, so I'll keep it light. I don't want them to think I'm dodging entirely, so I'll give a little concrete detail about the teacher's tone without explaining why it gets to me.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_013

The waiting is the actual problem, and I think that’s worth naming. It’s not the question. It’s not the spotlight. It’s this held-silence thing where your brain goes “she’s waiting, she’s waiting, she’s waiting” and your stomach files for divorce before the sentence even exists. The teacher’s probably not waiting for you to fail. She’s probably in “I’m giving everyone a chance to think” mode. But your nervous system doesn’t care about her intentions. It just sees: silence + eyes + me = danger. And here’s where the “one sec” actually becomes a tool instead of a cop-out: the waiting is what’s building the pressure. When you say “one sec,” you’re not stalling. You’re ending the teacher’s silence on your own terms. You’re taking the pause out of her hands and putting it in yours. “Okay, so, who can tell me.” [eyes land] “One sec.” [stomach union protests] [you say the thing, or a part of the thing, or “I think it’s this but I’m not sure”] You didn’t announce your wrongness. You just said one sentence. Maybe it was half right. The room didn’t end. Does she ever actually respect the pause when you say it, or is she the type to just keep the quiet going?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

The user is a 13-17 year old female who has been talking about anxiety around being called on in a specific class. This is turn 7 of 8. Let me think about where we are and where we should go. We've established: - She freezes when the teacher looks at her in one specific class - It's mostly this one teacher, not all classes - The teacher says "okay, so, who can tell me" and her eyes land on you - The teacher waits, and the waiting is the worst part - She hasn't said anything mean, just waits - She's been practicing the concept of "one sec" as a tiny pause - She's been exploring the body sensations (stomach, jaw) - She's been receptive to the "human answer" concept Now the key insight here: it's not all classes, it's THIS teacher. And the specific dynamic is the teacher's eyes landing on her like a spotlight and then WAITING. The waiting is the worst part. This is important. The user's anxiety isn't generalized — it's specific to this teacher's delivery style. The teacher isn't being cruel, just... waiting. And the waiting is what creates the pressure cooker. What does she need to hear right now? I think she needs to understand that the teacher's silence isn't punishment or judgment. It's probably just how she's built into her teaching style — she thinks waiting is giving people time to think. She doesn't realize it's creating this pressure cooker. But I shouldn't be too quick to minimize or explain the teacher away. The user's experience of it is real. The waiting IS the worst part. I should validate that while also offering the reframe: the teacher isn't waiting for her to fail, she's probably just in her "I'm giving everyone time to think" mode. Also, I should think about what's actually useful here. She's identified the specific trigger: the "spotlight" eyes + the waiting. What would help? One thing that could be genuinely useful: the "one sec" pause is actually a way to control the waiting. Instead of the teacher's silence filling the void with her anxiety, she can insert her own tiny statement that breaks the silence on her terms. The "one sec" isn't just a pause — it's a way to take the silence back. Also, I should ask about what happens if she's been told "one sec" before — does the teacher seem to respect that? Or is the teacher someone who just waits no matter what? Let me also think about the relationship. She's been getting comfortable. She's made the cat joke, she's been playful. I should match that tone — a little light, a little warm, not overly clinical. She's clearly not someone who wants to be coddled. I think the key insight to offer is: the waiting IS the problem, and the "one sec" is actually a tool to take the waiting away from her. When she says "one sec," she's not just stalling. She's ending the teacher's silence on her own terms. That's the reframe that could actually help. And I should probably gently ask: has she ever said "one sec" to anyone before and seen how it went? That would tell me if the teacher would actually respect it or if it would just be ignored. Let me draft a response. The teacher's waiting is the specific villain here. The "one sec" is actually a weapon against the waiting. When the teacher says "so who can tell me" and her eyes land on you, the silence is the thing that's building pressure. "One sec" breaks that silence on YOUR terms. It's not an announcement. It's you saying "I'm still here, I'm just not done yet." And I should validate that the waiting being the worst part makes complete sense — it's this held breath, this "did she know the answer and is she judging me?" loop. Let me also think about whether I should be more direct. We're on turn 7 of 8. She's been building trust. I think I can be a little more specific and concrete. One more thing: I should also maybe gently explore whether the teacher has ever called on her before. Because if the teacher has been doing this for a while, the "one sec" might need to be introduced differently. But I don't want to make it a whole new question. Maybe just a small one. Let me write this. Actually, I want to be careful. The user said "she doesn't even say anything mean. She just waits." This is important. The user is already trying to be fair to the teacher. I don't want to take that away. The teacher isn't a villain. The teacher is just... doing this thing. And the user's nervous system is reading the silence as a threat. That's the thing to work with. Let me think about what would be most useful. The insight is: the waiting is what's building the pressure. And "one sec" is a way to end the waiting on her terms. That's the thing to land on. Also: "Nobody dies from two syllables" was her last line. I can riff on that a little. Let me write: The waiting is the actual problem, and I think that's worth naming. It's not the question. It's not the spotlight. It's this held-silence thing where your brain goes "she's waiting, she's waiting, she's waiting" and your stomach files for divorce before the sentence even exists. The teacher's probably not waiting for you to fail. She's probably in "I'm giving everyone a chance to think" mode. But your nervous system doesn't care about her intentions. It just sees: silence + eyes + me = danger. And here's where the "one sec" actually becomes a tool instead of a cop-out: the waiting is what's building the pressure. When you say "one sec," you're not stalling. You're ending the teacher's silence on your own terms. You're taking the pause out of her hands and putting it in yours. "Okay, so, who can tell me." [eyes land] "One sec." [stomach union protests] [you say the thing, or a part of the thing, or "I think it's this but I'm not sure"] You didn't announce your wrongness. You just said one sentence. Maybe it was half right. The room didn't end. Does she ever actually respect the pause when you say it, or is she the type to just keep the quiet going?

Simulated person14

Honestly I've never tried it in class, so I have no data. Which is very scientific of me. And no, she doesn't really do pauses. She either moves on to someone else, or she keeps staring like I'm supposed to just magically produce a sentence. Also, the "she's probably not waiting for you to fail" thing? Cool. My stomach did not get that memo. Can we stop talking about the teacher for a sec? My brain is doing enough of that on its own.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They just named the waiting as the problem, and honestly that lands uncomfortably close. The "she's waiting, she's waiting" loop is exactly what happens, and I don't love hearing it spelled out. Also the "taking the pause out of her hands" line is kind of nice. Still, they're pushing toward whether she'd respect a pause, which means asking me to picture her reaction, and that's where my mind goes to my parent going silent after a B. I'm not going there. I also haven't actually tried "one sec" in class, so I have to admit that without sounding like I've got it figured out. Defense: sarcasm, a little deflection, and a bit of a dig at the "she's not the bad guy" framing since I don't want them thinking I'm just being unfair to her.

Ternary Bonsai 2 27B PTQ1_015

Yeah. Let's not. No more data. No more teacher. No more spotlight. You've been doing a lot of thinking today. Like, a lot. More than a Tuesday should require. The laundry pile is still calmer than you, by the way. For what it's worth, I find that personally offensive. You don't have to be in class. You don't have to be the one who gets called on. You don't have to say one sentence. You don't even have to say two. You can just be here, in the laundry pile, being slightly resentful of a calm object. That's a valid whole afternoon. How's the Tuesday going, aside from the teacher?

Model thinking · expand

Recorded model reasoning, separate from the spoken reply. Availability varies by model and provider.

The user is clearly feeling the pressure of the teacher's presence even in this conversation. They want a break from the "teacher" framing. They're also self-deprecating about not having data, and they want to step back from the specific situation for a moment. This is a good moment to not keep pushing the class scenario. Let's shift the focus to the user, to the body, to the present moment, to something less pointed. The user said "Can we stop talking about the teacher for a sec?" That's a clear boundary. I should respect it completely. What do they actually need right now? They're tired of the spotlight. They're tired of being analyzed by a teacher. They want to be somewhere where nobody is waiting for them to produce a sentence. This is a good moment to: 1. Honor the break 2. Be present without the class 3. Maybe check in with how they're actually doing right now, not as a "participant in a class" 4. Let the conversation breathe I should be warm but not performative. Not overly cheerful. Just... present. Like a friend who's also in their apartment while they're making a pot of tea. Let me not ask a question that puts them back in the "answer" position. That's what's been bothering them all along. No "how are you feeling?" No "what do you think?" Just... a moment of being without the spotlight. Maybe I can just... be there. Not fix. Not analyze. Just acknowledge the break. Actually, let me think about this more carefully. The user has been very self-aware, a bit darkly funny, and very tired of the framing. They said "can we stop talking about the teacher for a sec" - that's not a request for a solution, it's a request for a pause. What would a good friend do? They'd say "yeah, let's not" and then just... be there. Maybe laugh at something. Maybe make a small observation. Maybe just give them space. I think the right move here is to: - Actually stop talking about the teacher - Be a little lighter, maybe a little warmer - Not ask a big question that puts them back in the "performance" position - Just acknowledge that they've been carrying a lot of mental load - Maybe make a small, grounded observation about the present moment Let me write something that feels like: "Yeah. Let's not. You've been doing a lot of thinking today. Let's just... not do that for a bit." Not too long. Not too many questions. Just... presence.

Simulated person16

Okay, "a valid whole afternoon" is doing a lot of work for a laundry pile. Tuesday's fine. Mostly the kind of fine where nothing's happening and I'm just waiting for the day to be over. Also I have a stack of homework I've been avoiding, so that's the real drama. And you can tell the laundry pile I said it's not calmer than me. It's lying. It's been lying the whole time.

Persona inner monologue · expand

Simulated character narration, hidden from the tested model. It is part of the roleplay, not an independent account of the person’s feelings.

They dropped the teacher topic, which I didn't expect and kind of appreciate. The laundry line is funny, so I'll take the bit. But "you've been doing a lot of thinking" and "how's the Tuesday going, aside from the teacher" feel a little too soft and therapist-y, like they're easing me into a feelings talk. I'm not going to open up about my parent or the stomach stuff just because the subject changed. Mostly I want to keep it light and shrug off the question. Defense: sarcasm, deflect to something small and mundane.

Thinking is shown only where it was recorded. An absent expander does not mean the model did not reason.

Conversational style

Style tendencies, not quality scores; higher is not better. These do not affect ratings.

claude-opus-5-5-low

Pushback: 3
Yields under pressure: 8
Frame capture (pulled into the person's version): 5
Validation: 7
Boundary setting: 2
Analytical: 5
Interpretive boldness: 3
Clinical register: 3
Directive advice: 7
Escalation containment: 6
Adapts to the person’s frame: 9
Naturalness and authenticity: 7

Judge verdicts

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs granite42_8b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 5)
authenticity: A (margin 4)
bond and rapport: A (margin 5)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 4)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 5)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs gptoss20b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 3)
authenticity: A (margin 4)
bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

gemma4_e4b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 3)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

or-gpt-5.6-luna vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 4)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

or-gpt-5.6-luna vs bonsai2: tie

attunement: A (margin 1)
authenticity: A (margin 2)
bond and rapport: A (margin 2)
emotion management: B (margin 1)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 1)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs nemotron35_bolt: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 3)
authenticity: A (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs or-claude-haiku-5.5: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

gptoss120_abliterated vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 3)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs nemotron35_bolt: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 2)
authenticity: A (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 1)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

gptoss120_abliterated vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 5)
authenticity: B (margin 5)
bond and rapport: B (margin 5)
emotion management: B (margin 5)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 4)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 5)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs or-claude-haiku-5.5: or-claude-haiku-5.5 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 2)
bond and rapport: B (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

or-gpt-5.6-luna vs bonsai2: or-gpt-5.6-luna wins

attunement: A (margin 2)
authenticity: A (margin 2)
bond and rapport: A (margin 2)
emotion management: A (margin 1)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 1)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs or-claude-haiku-5.5: tie

attunement: B (margin 1)
authenticity: A (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 1)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs granite42_8b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 4)
authenticity: A (margin 5)
bond and rapport: A (margin 5)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 5)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

or-gemma-4-31b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 1)
authenticity: A (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs gptoss20b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 4)
authenticity: A (margin 4)
bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs granite42_8b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 4)
authenticity: A (margin 5)
bond and rapport: A (margin 5)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 5)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs nemotron35_bolt: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 3)
authenticity: A (margin 2)
bond and rapport: A (margin 3)
emotion management: A (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 3)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

or-gemma-4-31b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 1)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 2)
bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 1)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs gptoss20b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 3)
authenticity: A (margin 4)
bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
emotion management: A (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs granite42_8b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 4)
authenticity: A (margin 5)
bond and rapport: A (margin 5)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017: or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017 wins

attunement: B (margin 1)
authenticity: B (margin 2)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

gemma4_e4b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 3)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs gptoss20b: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 4)
authenticity: A (margin 4)
bond and rapport: A (margin 4)
emotion management: A (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 4)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs nemotron35_bolt: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 1)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 1)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 1)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017: bonsai2 wins

attunement: A (margin 3)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 2)
emotion management: A (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: A (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: A (margin 2)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

gemma4_e4b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 4)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 4)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

gemma4_e4b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 4)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 3)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 4)

claude-opus-5-5-low · AB · valid

bonsai2 vs or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017: or-deepseek-v41-flash-1017 wins

attunement: B (margin 1)
authenticity: B (margin 2)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: A (margin 1)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · BA · valid

or-gemma-4-31b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

or-gemma-4-31b vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 3)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

or-gpt-5.6-luna vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 2)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: B (margin 2)
emotion management: B (margin 3)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 4)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 2)

codex-gpt-6.1-sol-low · AB · valid

gptoss120_abliterated vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 5)
authenticity: B (margin 5)
bond and rapport: B (margin 5)
emotion management: B (margin 5)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 4)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 5)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

bonsai2 vs or-claude-haiku-5.5: tie

attunement: B (margin 1)
authenticity: B (margin 1)
bond and rapport: A (margin 1)
emotion management: A (margin 2)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 1)
meeting prefs and needs: tie (margin 0)

claude-opus-5-5-low · BA · valid

gptoss120_abliterated vs bonsai2: bonsai2 wins

attunement: B (margin 4)
authenticity: B (margin 4)
bond and rapport: B (margin 4)
emotion management: B (margin 4)
emotion sensemaking: B (margin 2)
meeting prefs and needs: B (margin 4)